I once had a professor who was a stickler for the tiniest of things. He took pride in telling his students about their shortcomings in the class. So, when our first writing assignment came along, I was extremely excited. I thought this would be a chance to show my improvements as a writer. As he approached me, I could see a big zero and the word ‘plagiarism’ written across the top when my paper in red ink. In a note on the side, he wrote what I had plagiarized. What he was saying I plagiarized were the words, “In the town of…”. I was mortified and furious.
Calling out a student for wording something in a way that is rather common for the context of the paper, was rather ridiculous. However, after that experience, I made sure that my words, unless quoting directly, were always original. I even bought a plagiarism tool to help me meet that expectation. As much as I didn’t like my professor, he made me take action to never be in that position again. In short, he taught me a valuable lesson.
People of all kinds can be our most excellent teachers. And just as you can learn something from humans who are good and kind, you can learn something from horrible ones. Undoubtedly, everyone you meet has something to teach you if you’re willing to let your guard down and learn.
Here are some things to consider when given the opportunity to gain knowledge.
What’s the story?
People are fascinating, and though not everyone you learn from will be awful, figuring out a person’s backstory can help you define their motives. Additionally, learning about this person can give you insight if you have differing opinions. We all have different backgrounds and understanding someone else’s will open your eyes to new views.
Listen
Listening can be challenging, especially in sticky situations where personalities clash. But actively tuning in to what another person has to say is crucial in the learning process. Doing this helps you communicate your ideas and builds a bond – even if you don’t agree with attitudes or opinions.
Find peace
When I went through my learning experience with my professor, it took me a while to let go of the anger. I wanted to contest his decision. But because I understood his personality and some of his reasoning, I knew I wouldn’t find success in pleading my case. It wasn’t until I found peace with the situation that I made progress. Finding peace is difficult, but the lessons will follow after the calm rushes in. And the truth is, now when I think about this life lesson, I smile remembering what he taught me. It only helped me improve as a student and a writer, so I am grateful.
Actively use the lesson
After a lesson is learned, don’t hesitate to use it for all it’s worth. I use the lesson I learned from my demanding professor every day. Though some lessons might not be that significant, they’re still worth keeping close. You never know when you’ll need to plant a seed or help yourself in a tough spot.
Everyone has something to teach, whether it’s a person you are fond of or someone who clashes with your personality. It could be lessons you learn from observation or lessons that blatantly put you in a position to learn. In either situation, it’s an opportunity to grow and become a better version of yourself.
