It’s so empowering to say, “This isn’t serving me” and walk away in peace.

One of the hardest things for people to do is walk away from someone they love. But you have to honor self-love and self-respect above all else. Loving yourself and putting your own happiness first is not selfish. It’s the opposite. The more you cherish yourself, the better you treat others around you. If you have an empty cup, you cannot hydrate yourself or those around you. Learn to serve yourself so that you can

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The fastest way to change yourself is to hang out with people who are already the way you want to be.

They say that you are the accumulation of the 5 people you spend the most time with. Knowing that, I’d say it’s rather essential to carefully select the people you spend time with. Most of us have a vision of who we want to be, what type of life we want to live, how we want to treat others, and goals we have in mind for our careers, family, and lives. Surrounding yourself with people

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Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor. It can never be used to hurt you.

In the first season of Game of Thrones, Tyrion Lannister is visiting Winterfell with his family. Robert Baratheon is King and they are all there to ask Ned Stark, Lord of the North and Robert’s biggest ally from the war, to become his Hand. While he is outside having a drink, Tyrion runs into Ned Stark’s “bastard” child, Jon Snow. He tells Jon, “Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not.

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Carpe diem. Seize the day, boys. Make your lives extraordinary.

In the 1989 movie, Dead Poets Society, Robin Williams plays an eccentric English teacher named John Keating. He teaches a group of boys who attend a Catholic prep school in Vermont during the 1950s. Mr. Keating is very different from the kinds of teachers the boys had previously. He encourages them to think for themselves and to, “Carpe diem. Seize the day, boys. Make your lives extraordinary.” One of the students named Neil Perry, played

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Those who wish to sing, always find a song.

It’s easy to get caught up in the daily grind of life. You spend time running on autopilot as you take care of work, family, chores, and other obligations, which can leave you feeling a bit sluggish and weighed down. Even if you aren’t unhappy with your life circumstances, you may still notice that you seem to be missing a genuine sense of happiness and enjoyment most of the time. We become strangely loyal to

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It’s not who you are that holds you back, it’s who you think you’re not.

Have you ever wished you could do something, but somehow you hold yourself back? Maybe you wanted to start a business or become an artist or even just approach someone at the bar. Why does this happen? We often have highly critical perceptions of ourselves. We think we aren’t pretty enough, talented enough, funny enough, or just good enough as we are. For us, it isn’t about who we are that holds us back –

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Sometimes you have to make a decision that will break your heart but will give peace to your soul.

Have you ever had to make a difficult decision? Maybe you had to break up with your significant other, quit a job, or move to a new country. Big life decisions can be difficult and scary because it means doing something different than what we are used to. Our bodies are wired to keep us in our comfort zones, where we feel safe in the familiarity of things. But when our comfort zone is a

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Excuses will always be there for you. Opportunity won’t.

Have you ever set a goal or decided to work on a project, do something big, or start a new habit, but lost motivation along the way? As much as we don’t like to admit it, we have all experienced making excuses at some point or another in our lives. Sometimes we make excuses to get out of things we don’t want to do for other people. But many times, we actually make excuses for

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