All great changes are preceded by chaos.

In so many success stories, we hear about how major movements towards goals didn’t happen until the final hour or until the person literally had nothing else to lose. These kinds of odds and triumphing over these challenges is what makes success stories so compelling – and inspiring. The thing about the energy of chaos is that it has the ability to catapult us in the direction we want to go. All we have to

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The struggle you’re facing is a test to see if you’re truly committed to the life you say you want.

It can be hard to see your struggle as a test when you’re in the middle of it. It’s in those moments of wondering if it’s really even worth it to keep going, that you have to dig deeper and rely on discipline, rather than motivation. You aren’t going to be motivated 100% of the time about your goal. You have to trust that staying disciplined, even when it is the last thing you want

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What if everything that you are going through right now is preparing you for what you’ve asked for?

When we are going through difficult times, it can be hard to reframe all that is happening to us. Believing that all the pain and hardship we are experiencing is really just preparing us for what we have wanted is much easier said than done. The journey that we take is more important than the destination we arrive to. You see, all the trials and tribulations during our journey prepares us for our next level

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Train yourself to let go of everything you fear to lose.

Ask anyone who is afraid of losing something how easy it is to let go of those fears. For many of us, it feels impossible. Sometimes it feels like those fears we have are etched into our soul and part of who we are. But are they really? Eighty percent of our choices are based on fear. Often times we don’t really choose what we want – we choose what we think is the safest.

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Too many of us are not living our dreams because we are living our fears.

99% of the things that we fear and worry about never happens. Yet we stay stuck in a pattern of living our daily lives shackled by these fears that will likely never come to fruition. Why are we living our fears rather than our dreams? We know that what we focus on, we become. We focus on our fears because it gives us some sense of control by causing us to go into “predictive mode”.

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If you don’t make time for your wellness, you will be forced to make time for your illness.

Our wellness has many components. Sometimes we can do everything “right” in our life by staying physically and mentally healthy and still get a medical diagnosis that changes everything. I know for me, being diagnosed with cancer young wasn’t something I felt prepared to deal with. It was shocking and for a period of time, I would wake up in the morning, thinking that I had just had the worst nightmare of having cancer. It

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Instead of getting mad at a clown for being a clown, ask yourself why you keep going to the circus.

So much easier said than done, right? When we feel hurt or upset by someone who has a history of hurting us, it’s easy to respond in a righteously indignant fashion. We want an apology or some kind of indication that they get how hurtful they were and truly feel sorry that they hurt us. Again. That’s what’s fair and what’s right, isn’t it? But here’s the thing about clowns. If they know that they

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When you stop chasing the wrong things, you give the right things a chance to catch you.

There will be times in our life that we chase things that we know are no longer good for us or are things we have outgrown. We stay on autopilot, building our daily habits on chasing these things, when in reality they aren’t the things that can take us to the next level. What we focus on grows and becomes our reality. In the movie Collateral, the character Max played by Jamie Foxx, is a

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