It is never too late to heal and change your life. It doesn’t matter how old you are or your circumstances. If you want to heal and change your life, it’s never too late. When we haven’t healed, we may be prone to bleed on people who didn’t cut us. We aren’t living our best life because we are still dealing with trauma. Many of us are still living in survival mode – which is only a phase intended to help you through struggle. It isn’t supposed to be how we live our lives.
It is far better to show up late, living the life you always dreamt of, than never doing it at all. The problem is, it is in our nature to stick with our same patterns and routines, even when they no longer serve us. We would rather play it safe and stick with the known, even if it’s awful. It’s the devil we know versus the devil we don’t.
If you have some healing to do, get started now. Maybe seeing a therapist would be helpful. Maybe reading some books about what you are struggling with will open you up to new perspectives on what you can do to heal. Perhaps finding a support community can help you feel less alone.
The important thing is to stop waiting for conditions to be ideal to make your move. You deserve to live a life where you are happy and victorious. Let your story of healing be the one the lights the way for others in the future.
