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We generate the results in life we believe we deserve.

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Whether we are conscious of it or not, what we believe about ourselves determines the results we get in our life. Back in June, I talked about the science behind the law of attraction and how our brains create filters for our experiences based on what we believe. You can read the full post here.

What we believe about who we are, and our value heavily influences how we experience life. Whether it’s how we relate to others, how we feel in social settings, how we navigate our careers, and any event that happens to us – our brains have a set of parameters in how they interpret these things. And we set those parameters based on what we believe. Naturally, our results in life are reflections of what we believe we deserve.

The good news is that we can alter our results by changing what we believe. If you notice a pattern of results that you aren’t happy with, examine what underlying beliefs you might have about yourself. For example, if you tend to choose jobs that don’t allow you to grow into better roles, ask yourself if that is what you really want. Maybe you do want it that way. Perhaps having a lower stress job is important to you because it allows you to focus your free time on other things outside of work – which is awesome. But if you don’t like that you aren’t advancing, ask yourself why you have chosen the jobs you have had. Do you feel like you aren’t capable of handling additional responsibility? Are you afraid of how you will be perceived as a manager?

Getting to the root of what is really driving your results is key to unpacking and rewriting what you believe about yourself. In the example above, if you find that the real reason you have been stuck in the same job for years is because you are unsure about how to be a manager, that’s great news! Now you can address the lack of confidence you feel in yourself by educating yourself on how to be a manager. Maybe that looks like reading books or finding a mentor who has the role you would like to have. Taking action to build confidence in yourself and your abilities will help you reshape how you see yourself…and ultimately change the results you are getting.

What results do you believe you deserve? 

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