Our lives are defined by opportunities, even the ones we miss.

Have you ever missed an opportunity you regretted? If you are honest, you can probably think of at least one thing in your life that you let go, whether it was accidental or intentional. Maybe you didn’t prepare for a job interview or maybe you didn’t take that job opportunity. Whether it is in our personal lives, careers, or personal development, we are defined by opportunities that we take, and the ones we miss. What

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Expecting things to change without putting in any effort is like waiting for a ship at an airport.

What would happen if you went to an airport and waited for a ship? Nothing would happen, and you would be waiting at the airport forever. What would happen if you expected things to change but didn’t make an effort to bring about change? You would likely never see your desired changes take place. The truth is change takes effort and will not take place unless you work to make it happen. Change Takes Effort

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Don’t let anyone ever make you feel like you don’t deserve what you want.

When you look around at the conditions of your life as they are today, would you say that you are satisfied, or do you yearn for much more? Even if your life is comfortable and basically good, you may still harbor big dreams in your heart that you hope to fulfill one day. The important question to consider is, do you believe that you deserve more? Whether it’s a bigger or nicer home, a better

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The undisciplined are slaves to moods, appetites and passions.

Have you ever wanted to start a healthy habit? Start going to the gym, be more productive, eat healthier, read more, etc? If you are here reading this, chances are you are into self-improvement. You want to become a better version of yourself so that you can create a better life for yourself. Most of us have the same desire. We all want to be “better”. But, even after trying repeatedly, it feels like we

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Worrying will never change the outcome.

Everyone worries from time to time. We worry about paying the bills, losing people we love, having arguments with friends, etc. However, worrying will never change the outcome. This means that pondering and ruminating over a particular situation will not have any influence over what happens in the end. To explore the meaning of this quote further, we will define anxiety, analyze why people worry, and identify four ways you can deal with excess worry.

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Oh yes, the past can hurt. But you can either run from it, or learn from it.

Painful experiences from the past can continue to haunt you when you don’t get to fully process your thoughts and feelings about them. Like many people, you might try to avoid your negative feelings for as long as possible, simply because they’re uncomfortable. You might find yourself keeping busy and creating distractions so you don’t have to feel the sadness, anger, and hurt. But until you face those feelings and internalize the lessons from the

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There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man. True nobility is being superior to your former self.

Humans are competitive creatures, and we are always striving to do better and be better. This is a wonderful thing most of the time because that competitive nature is the driving force behind ingenuity and innovation. Competition usually involves a measure of comparison, measuring ourselves and our capabilities against those of other people. In some cases, this can be a positive thing because it encourages us to push ourselves to excel. However, comparison and competition

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Strange isn’t it? You know yourself better than anyone else, yet you crumble at the words of someone who hasn’t lived a second of your life. Focus on your own voice, it is the only one that matters.

It doesn’t feel good to be criticized or belittled by others, and it’s easy sometimes to take their harsh words to heart. You may think to yourself, “Maybe they’re right. Maybe I’m doing everything wrong. Maybe I’m not talented enough, strong enough, or good enough.” You may even believe them so completely that you will give up on an important goal or sink into a state of despair and hopelessness. Criticism can either be constructive

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