Do you ever feel like you are insignificant? Like what could you possibly do that would make any real impact on the world?
Whether it’s donating money to end poverty or switching to a metal straw to be more eco-friendly, sometimes it feels like, “what’s the point?” What difference can this really make?
The truth is, nothing is insignificant. Every little bit adds up.
Small Things Make a Big Difference
You never know the impact that you make on someone’s life. One small smile could light up someone’s day. Opening the door for a colleague at work could give them a little boost of hope in the world. A kind gesture at work could translate to a happier mood at home and save someone’s marriage. One good review at a restaurant could lead to someone’s promotion. You don’t know what someone else is going through and the impact each action, word, and gesture you offer can make.
Here are some small ways that you can make a difference in someone’s day, week, and even life.
Smile
As mentioned before, a smile almost always lifts up someone’s day. In our fast-paced world where we are either lost in our thoughts or phones, sometimes something as small as a smile is overlooked. Thus, the next time you pass your neighbor or get your coffee from the barista, just smile! It costs nothing and it can make a big impact.
Listen
One of the most basic elements of communication and one that is often forgotten, is listening. How often do you get into a conversation, only to talk or to present your opinion? This often happens when a friend or family member is trying to share their struggles. We are so quick to try to offer a solution, to give advice, or to share our own opinions, that we forget to do the basics – just listen. In your next conversation, try listening rather than talking and see the difference it makes. Don’t judge, interrupt, or try to fix the situation. Listening is an act of kindness, and an example of something seemingly small but extremely powerful.
Give Freely
You have a lot more to give than you think. Whether it’s time, money, or energy, there is always something you can give to others in need. Think of things you can give to those around you. For example, you might offer to babysit for a friend. Or, you could offer to give someone a ride to the airport. Small actions can be incredibly helpful for others and make them feel seen, loved, and supported.
Show Gratitude
What have people given you? Again, don’t get stuck on material items. Maybe your friend took out some time from her work day to go house-hunting with you. Or your mom cooked you dinner. Thank those around you for these small acts of kindness. You can also extend this kindness to those who make your life easier, whether it is the Uber driver, the clerk at the grocery store, or the delivery guy with your food. Thank them for their service. Getting in the habit of thanking people not only makes you feel really good, but it can make someone’s day.
We are all trying to survive in this crazy world to the best of our abilities. And with the endless things to do and places to be, it can be easy to start thinking you are too small to make a difference. However, small things have the potential to make the biggest difference. You don’t know what a simple gesture of kindness can mean to someone else on a bad day. So, don’t refrain from being generous with your kindness. You can make a difference!
