Often times we focus our energy on things that have already happened. Or we are busy focusing on things that are in our future that we are worried or excited about. The funny thing is, when we focus on the past and future, we are robbing ourselves of the present. And, we tend to put things off into the future constantly. We designate some of our biggest dreams or even just small things that bring us joy for the magical land of “someday” where it never actually happens.
But what about right now? What are you doing to make the most out of right now?
It can be a hard question to answer, because we don’t often think about what we can do in the present. Many of us wait until conditions are “perfect” or “ideal” to do awesome things. Or we wait for special occasions. But I will tell you, being alive is a special occasion.
What are some things you can do now to connect with others and experience joy? Here are a few ideas:
- Work on a writing a book you’ve always wanted to write.
- Call a friend and catch up on things.
- Surprise your partner with a date night “just because”.
- Go stargazing and do some astrophotography.
- Too hot outside to camp but you really want to do it? Set up a tent in your living room with fairy lights. Make some s’mores, too!
- Cook a recipe you’ve been dying to try.
- Go to a new restaurant and try a new cuisine.
- Call or visit your parents.
- Take a Masterclass in a subject you’ve always been interested in.
- Chat up that cute guy or girl you’ve seen around town.
- Read a book you’ve wanted to read but have put off.
- Catch a sunrise or sunset.
- Make a pillow fort and play video games.
- Tell someone you love how much they mean to you.
- Try out that recipe or DIY project you pinned on Pinterest ages ago.
- Create your own trick shots in your home or yard Dude Perfect style.
The possibilities of what you can do right here and right now to add joy to your life is endless. These are just my suggestions…What would be on your list?
