Caring with other people think of us is very human. It’s kind of a protective perimeter that allows us to be mindful as to not being hurtful towards others and behaving appropriately in situations. But where we tend to get off track is when we take other people’s opinions of us too seriously. When we allow their thoughts about who we should be to overshadow our own sense of who we are, we are looking for external validation or approval. Relying on external validation can become vicious cycle that completely distorts not only how we see ourselves, but how we value ourselves.
Silence the sound of other people telling you who you should be – especially people who don’t even know who they are.
Here are some things to remember about your purpose and what other people think:
- What people think of you is none of your business.
- What’s “right” for someone else, might not be right for you.
- Remember that advisors are not the payers.
- No one knows what is best for you but you.
- Be mindful about social media. Social media can enhance our need for approval from others.
- Not caring what other people think will be the best choice you will ever make.
- The greatest prisons we live in are the prison of what other people think.
- Don’t listen to society. They tell you to be yourself, but then they judge you for it.
- You are enough as you are. Trust your purpose and who you are.
