You wanting a sign is a sign.

There is a difference between wanting a sign and being open to listening for answers or guidance. When I think about times that I just wanted a sign that I was doing the right thing, I was really looking for reassurance that I was doing the right thing. I was seeking evidence that I was making the right choice. And that is where things can get tricky.

If you’ve been reading my posts for a while, you know that I am a big believer in the Law of Attraction. And that I talk extensively about how what we believe about ourselves and the world around us determines how our brain receives information.

When we come from a place of seeking signs, our brains will filter information to us that confirms what we want to believe. Sometimes that’s actually a good thing, other times, it can create confirmation bias and lead you astray.

If you are really wanting a sign, do this: Call heads on one option and tails on the other option for what you will do and flip a coin. You will realize while that coin is up in the air, what you really want it to land on. And from there, you can open yourself up to guidance from the universe that it is the right choice.